Добавил в icq, у вас защита - снимите:
Aleksey Shevchenko only receives messages from contacts on his contact list or from contacts that have registered their phone number. In order to send Aleksey Shevchenko a message, please register your phone number to ICQ, or add Aleksey Shevchenko to your contact list, and once Aleksey Shevchenko adds you to his contact list you can send Aleksey Shevchenko messages

Можно закрывать, я придумал как решить проблему самостоятельно)